My girl left me - Page 3

God_Of_MuayThai · 04-20-2009, 06:38 PM

Originally Posted by Scorched Earth

I see. That means she will get railed by the Jarhead until he gets it out of his system. Then you two will reconcile... down the road...

lol...I wouldnt be suprised the guy is an asshole and she didnt tell me to go fuck myself even though i told her i prefered that instead of leaving an opening....oh well I dont even think I care anymore

Scorched Earth · 04-20-2009, 06:40 PM

Fuck that girl.... I mean don't fuck her any more.

God_Of_MuayThai · 04-20-2009, 06:42 PM

I really do want to cuss her out but I cant for some reason...I dont hate her or anything its just one of those things that it is what is and move on...if its meant to be its meant to be but Im not crying over it

RapeChoke · 04-20-2009, 07:23 PM

So go practice kickboxing, you'll feel better

God_Of_MuayThai · 04-20-2009, 07:24 PM

ive been working out at xsport...that does the trick

chess zebra · 04-21-2009, 12:50 PM

Originally Posted by God_Of_MuayThai

ive been working out at xsport...that does the trick

I been trying to figure out what will make me feel good.
Dont feel like working out.
Work sucks as always.
I have spent the majority of my free time with my girlfriend for the past 15 years so it feels like there is a giant void now.
Dont really want to star dating other people because my heart wont be in it and it can only make things with more complicated.

My life was work, play with dog, work out, hang with girlfriend, sleep and repeat.
Now it is work, walk dog, sleep, repeat.
This sucks.

DBHK · 04-21-2009, 01:23 PM

Listen, when life gives you lemons....say FUCK the lemons and bail. Forget this chick, if you're not ready to settle down, and she's not willing to wait, then you two are not meant to be. There is someone out there for you though. Get over it, go out, drink some, pick up a hood-rat, and fuck her until you're healed.

TurboFart · 04-23-2009, 12:06 PM

Originally Posted by chess zebra

It sucks. Girlfriend of 15 years. She is pissed cuz I never got her a ring. She packed and moved out while I was gone away on a trip.

She did the same thing a few times before, but something is different this time. She has been calling me almost everyday since she left so maybe there is some hope.

I know it is ridiculous to say this stuff in forums, but I cant bring myself to tell any of my friends or family. She is so fucking angry about all the years that have gone by and she is so resentful of it all. I hope there is something I can do to fix this mess and make it right, but I am not sure she even wants that anymore.

She'll be back bro. Especially if she's still calling you everyday... she's just baiting you into proposing. My girl threatens me with this shit everyday... all i hear out of her mouth is "when are we getting marrrreeeeeedd????" and "shave your mustache that thing looks disgustiiiiiingg...."

Think about this though... doesn't it defy logic to leave someone because you're afraid you might not spend the rest of your life with them?. She wants to be with you so bad that she wants to marry you but if you don't propose she is leaving you??? I swear women are so fucking stupid sometimes.

Jesus_Didn't_Tap · 04-23-2009, 12:16 PM

In my personal experience, leave on a good note. Tell them that you sincerely enjoyed all the time spent with them, they really are a special woman, another time and place i'm sure we would be happy right now. Smile, hug, kiss and bounce. It wont be an hour till your phone is blowin up.

chess zebra · 04-24-2009, 12:15 AM

Originally Posted by Jesus_Didn't_Tap

In my personal experience, leave on a good note. Tell them that you sincerely enjoyed all the time spent with them, they really are a special woman, another time and place i'm sure we would be happy right now. Smile, hug, kiss and bounce. It wont be an hour till your phone is blowin up.

thx turbo and jesus.
I did that. Told her that I will love her no matter how things turn out...
She has been calling me everyday still and even slept at my place the other night. I think she is staying at some noisy shithole because she had a bag from wallmart with earplugs in it and she complains that she cant get anytime to use the bathroom there. Anyway, today she calls me to ask me what I am doing this weekend and adds that she wants to tell me something but she doesnt want me to laugh at her. Then says she will text me instead. So she texts me that she has a date with some grey haired 50'something year old from church.
I am so fucking depressed. I hate people that are depressed and drag others down, and now I am one of those fuckers myself.
She has always complained that I have too much going on in my life - work, gym, my dog, playing chess etc and she always felt like I was ignoring her. Then she got some advice from some fucker to keep herself busy with other things so she started going out, partying til like 4 a.m. even on weekdays, and coming home sometimes shitfaced (and having driven home). It was like that for maybe one month. I told her that if she hits someone it is manslaughter if she is intoxicated and she will go to jail (and of course I will be the one paying the bail, legal fees etc). Well eventually she stopped the drinking and just partied til 4 a.m. without the alcohol. I stayed at home wondering wtf had happened to our relationship, and/or shuttling my ass back and forth to and from the hospital for work. After a few weeks of it I just stopped talking to her and slept downstairs on the couch every night, wondering how much happier I could be with someone else. All the while, I was confused and angry, and sad. Well I left for a trip for 1 week and thought about her everynight while I was gone. She called me every day. After one of the conversations I told her 'I love you' and she told me 'ok, I wanna watch this movie.' Anyway, she still ends up calling me pretty much everyday after that. When I get home my place is half empty and she shows up after like a half hour after I got there I guess to tell me the obvious that she is moving out. I was so fucking heartbroken.
It is just so brutal, because she was with me everyday, as the most important person in my world for the past 15 years.
Tonight I did some shit with my email so that it says I am unreachable and tried to change my cell phone number too, but apparently I need to wait until tomorrow morning to make that happen.
I want to just disappear. Or break something. Or I dont know what. But the hardest thing is that I need to just keep doing the best I can at work, and I feel like I have no outlet. I could go to the gym and do some jiu jitsu or kickboxing, but I dont want to do shit. Maybe in a few days I will find it in me to do something productive. But even then, I just foresee myself as a miserable 40 year old fuck who is working all day, and working out in the evenings. Not much of an upgrade from a miserable 40 year old fuck who is working all day and doing nothing in the evenings.

flacman77 · 05-20-2009, 07:41 PM

Originally Posted by jarwillie

The diamonds get mined by african slaves

So true.

Metallica

Team goodlooking · 05-21-2009, 05:56 AM

If you can't have her maybe nobody should, if you get my drift.